TAPS

Stephanie took me to Taps in Brea for my birthday, a brewery and fish restaurant. I had trout and she ordered the mahi mahi. Stephanie is one of the sweetest girls I know and I really have to make sure that I don't ever hurt her feelings.

We were going to watch a movie after since downtown Brea is so close to the restaurant. However, we didn't really see anything interesting playing, so I asked her if she wanted to watch Bottle Rocket at my place. I called my mom to see where she was so she wouldn't be surprised when I brought a guest over. It turned out that she was playing bingo in Covina.

Bottle Rocket is the movie that made Luke and Owen Wilson stars. It's quirky but still very good. I'm not exactly sure what the point of the movie is though. Afterwards, we got into some hanky panky, but the darn couch is so uncomfortable, we didn't really get anywhere. I really need to get a place of my own.

I'm beginning to realize why it's a good thing not to have sex with someone you want a relationship with. There are so many reasons. First, it helps you get to know the person without the complication of sexual intimacy. Ever hear of being pussy whipped? Or know that guy that'll do anything for some pussy? That's what sex will do to some suckas. Second, you get the opportunity to keep your options open and date other people at the same time. If things don't work out, at least you can still be friends. Finally, well, I can't think of anything else really.

Regardless of the reasons, it's still difficult not to have sex with a willing woman. I've always thought that if you deny sex to a willing woman, she'll want you more. But that's not the only reaction that can happen. You could lose the opportunity because she may not take rejection very well. You could also lose the opportunity because she may not really want anything that serious and isn't willing to wait. So all in all, I'll take it when I can get it. I figure that if the woman likes you, she'll like you whether you're a slut or a saint.